Wondering where I’ve been? Probably not, but regular visitors will notice that there has been a long posting holiday. I didn’t really mean for it to be that way, but when you give up Facebook and Twitter it seems you get out of the habit of blogging too! Well at least I did. For 6 weeks I stopped looking at, posting in and paying any attention to Facebook. It all started at morning meeting one morning when I sat beside one of our staff who told me he was giving up online gaming for Lent. I decided I would join in and give up Facebook. Not for Lent exactly but because it was starting to really annoy me, and I wanted to know what would happen to my levels of annoyance if I took a break from it for a while.
What is it about Facebook that annoys me?
- Turns out it isn’t Facebook it is the users. It is the people who post constant updates of their life, be it miserable, be it chirpy, chipper, boring, adventurous or whatever. Constant updaters need to leave the rest of us alone. It isn’t necessary for us to know where you ate breakfast, that you have a new handbag, that you want a new handbag, that your child is the most beautiful ever. Constant updaters appear insecure and seem to need the constant feedback that Facebook can provide.
- It is the people who share: the games they are playing, the quizzes they endlessly do, the highscores they just got, the online life they have. Don’t do that people.
- It is the constant urge to share which news articles people are reading, which pictures you’ve looked at, what you liked on Pinterist. Risist the urge to share on Facebook please. I’m following you on Pintrest if I care about the things you like.
- It is the annoying, will not go away updates from games you used to play. I blocked you once Bejewelled Blitz, how did you get back here again.
- The friend requests from people I barely know. Seriously, I have 144 ‘friends’ if you are not amongst them, and you consider yourself my friend, then either you don’t have the internet, you haven’t seen me in a bazillion years, or we have fallen out and please, send me a message not a friend request, I love a message, it is like getting an old fashioned letter in the mailbox. Facebook is great for catching up with people you haven’t seen in years, but sometimes you haven’t seen those people in years because you aren’t the same person you were when you knew them! There is certainly space for new FB friends in my life but only if they conform to my ‘rules’ (see above) and below – click the image!